blue as in depressed.have u ever felt u dnt fit in somehere ever felt really thick? how do u overcome such feelings and overcome negative thoughts. serious answers only
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It's really tough to go through periods like this, nadz. I think it really helps if you have someone around who understands you and can help you see things from a different perspective, to draw you out of these dark thoughts. Of course it's also great to busy yourself in things that you care about and enjoy, but it's hard to take initiative when you are truly depressed, which is why having a companion you can open up to who can support you and draw you out really helps. I hope you have someone like that in your life, and I hope that inshAllah things get better soon.
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Go see a counsellor. Someone you can talk to who won't judge you and will just listen to your problems.
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you move to UK ASAP.
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You should get urself out of that place asap..
Make urself busy with things u like to do.. Don't pay attention to the ones who make u feel like that
and most important.. Pray :)Inshallah things will get better for you
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Look forward to the good things which are yet to come and plan for them. That should take your mind off the negative stuff. And like the others have mentioned - keep busy and pray.
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stupid - yes a few times
thick- yes that too
blue- yes
oh and this year I feel very upset after socializing for no reason. It doesnt make any sense because social interaction is supposed to make u feel better.and hence i dont socialize much.
Just know its a phase and only u can combat that. Spot the problem, either avoid it, resolve it or make peace with it.
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Everyone has felt blue, thick, and stupid....sometimes all 3 at the same. :/
As for feeling stupid/thick....since we're imperfect we are prone to making mistakes that are both accidental and deliberate. If by stupid you mean lack of knowledge,skills, or ignorance.....then that is overcome by exposure to information, experience, and practice. Nobody is born knowing all or how to do everything. Even those that bring you down and who appear more adept than you at a certain task/situation.....were at some point clueless, uncertain, and raw. Sometimes people fail to consider this.
You could try going back to the Uk, but a change in location doesn't guarantee that you'll never feel blue or stupid...nor does it guarantee that you'll never encounter people in the future (either the same people or different ones) who will make you feel this way again. We have greater control over ourselves than others. Try to focus more on what you can control through your own actions/decisions that can make life more easier for you.
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what does feeling "thick" mean?
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like sometimes i may be loud and clear on gupshup but in real life i can be silent. m not afraid but theres somethn stppping me being heard. mayb if they hear meitl be considered thick stupid etc. and how do i explain depressopn to a man my hisband who doesnt even get upset when someone dies hes unemptional and laid back. he wouldnt know or understand.how do u xplain these things. plus who wants to know a depressed person. im not really depressed im jist not how i used to be.
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thick means same as stupid really/ dense etc
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^oh, ok
well, i often feel the same as you- the only way to overcome it is 1) to recognize it (which you already have, so that's good!) and
2) make an ACTIVE effort to change it- meaning if you feel yourself sitting around like a silent stone then force yourself to get involved in a conversation and make sure you sound confident- i've realized that people that sound like they are really intelligent and are talkative are often just idiots who sound confident in what they say
if anyone thinks you're stupid that's their own problem- it won't hurt you and you'll probably never know if they think that anyway so don't let that fear stop you
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blue as in depressed.have u ever felt u dnt fit in somehere ever felt really thick? how do u overcome such feelings and overcome negative thoughts. serious answers only
Talk to a friend may be.
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don't think negative , that helps