ok for a lil update and additional pseudo-intellectualism:
what i am simply saying is, everyone has seen one of these ppl in their lives:
1) negative ppl who are bad for themselves and others health. they have no sense of humor, are horrible to be with, may constantly try to pull u down, whatever.
2) who cannot tolerate you for your success, cuz they think life is unfair to be giving things too easily to you, and not to them. they are jealous and will try to harm you if they could,as long as you remain indifferent to them
3) controlling, manipulative people.
4) psychos who kill people, who dont supposedly 'feel'.
i think its all very fine to not want somebody's company any longer, frends and stuff. its all right to say, haan toa may kiya karoon if she is jealous or i have been lucky etc.
laikin ab kiya ham itnay insensitive hain kay we cant even understand these things. why is it that we only get very pressing arguements from people to avoid 'negative' poeple 'at all costs'.
is this being socially responsible.
in one thread FF said that its when you start losing then you should turn away, but being indifferent is it justifed.
and if being indiffernt is justifed, and the world is as it is, then why have these laws at all, against cirminals.
isn't crime justified, if social indifference is.
its a free world after all.