my mamus and other khalas all know about this prob me n hubbys sister have and they have dun it sat us down n said thats not the way ect... to try sort out prob ... when she infront of them at the tym they all tryin to sort out she says okk i wont have the grudge but after a few days she gets up her own bakside again (sorry for bad language)
even my mum has triedd left us too in the same room and said talk it thru coz life will get hard in future... even then she jus sits there in attitude and jus gives the dirty looks and smerks.... its not coz she pregz lol she been in the air since the day she got married.... lykkk girlll touch the ground now lolllll
thats right she not gona be wid me 24/7 coz obv my fiance after we get married will stay where i stay coz his parents are in pakistan....
Shanno, you have to understand one thing when you deal with any sort of in-law situations: you can only control your behavior...not anyone else's.
With that in mind, Im going to say your best bet is to be absolutely consistent in your behavior. Be nice to her, ignore her snide remarks and meanness. Pretend as if you didnt hear anything when she says something hurtful. Its not worth your time or effort to dwell on such things.
Plus, she is human, she cant stay mad forever and if she did...people around you would start resenting her for being mean to you. She would look like a fool if she stayed upset with you for no apparent reason even though you are trying so hard to mend fences and be nice. Even your fiancee would notice that and respect/love you more.
You are lucky woman! You dont have to live with someone who mistreats you like that!
Kill them with kindness, its foolproof. I realize its easier said than done but its a permanent solution...not just a band-aid.
Good luck!