Hardships in Life - A fork in the road.....

[Muzna]

Re: Hardships in Life - A fork in the road…

@Xtron

Well Muzna baji, difference between A & B is apparent. B believes, a person comes out much stronger and in order to go through it..he/she has to go through a process. Nothing in life is easy and it won’t be easy. I wish people just understand that..life is not plate of gold. It won’t give results right away..coz as human being we do become very impatient. But B believes..everything is in Allah’s hand. Our job is to beg him for forgiveness and his mercy. And yes including those..who has done wrong to ourselves..perhaps they may be forgiven by that act.

A believes, they got enough of enough. They don’t have power to endure anymore..so they try running away from problem. But the same worry that they try to avoid..chase them until it tires them. They are angry and give up very easily. And the very same ppl live a sad life. They may believe in Allah’s rahmah and hope too..yes it could happen. However, Allah’s rehm and forgiveness comes in second to their worry.

So the ingredient of “hope” is the fine line between these two.

Good point.
Hope is definitely another factor in determining who lands where.

@TLK

Have you noticed that “generally pessimistic” people are also “generally ungrateful” people?

Yes…I have noticed this too.

@X2

Personal traits,… strength, maturity, faith possibly
Previous experiences, future experiences, support structure including self help and friends, family, support groups etc etc

This is just my view from my limited knowledge but are the factors I see as pertinent

All valid.