Hardships in Life - A fork in the road.....

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Re: Hardships in Life - A fork in the road…

@Muzna

Everyone goes through some level of hardship in life. Granted what one may consider hardship, another may not but for the sake of this discussion let’s suggest that the degree of difficulty all around is comparable.

So we have two people…A and B. Both endure challenges in life. Both struggle and face the same degree of success and failure in dealing with the challenges.
Why is it that person A becomes miserable, bitter and generally angry towards life while person B becomes more and more patient and tolerant?

What is the ingredient that makes the two of these people end up in different places?

Well Muzna baji, difference between A & B is apparent. B believes, a person comes out much stronger and in order to go through it..he/she has to go through a process. Nothing in life is easy and it won’t be easy. I wish people just understand that..life is not plate of gold. It won’t give results right away..coz as human being we do become very impatient. But B believes..everything is in Allah’s hand. Our job is to beg him for forgiveness and his mercy. And yes including those..who has done wrong to ourselves..perhaps they may be forgiven by that act.

A believes, they got enough of enough. They don’t have power to endure anymore..so they try running away from problem. But the same worry that they try to avoid..chase them until it tires them. They are angry and give up very easily. And the very same ppl live a sad life. They may believe in Allah’s rahmah and hope too..yes it could happen. However, Allah’s rehm and forgiveness comes in second to their worry.

So the ingredient of “hope” is the fine line between these two.