Re: Haq Mehar
there is no set amount for mehr however it should be set within the grooms financial means..if he cannot afford to give money as mahr he can give you something as simple as a Quran or teach you a new surah...it is something that is decided between you (or ur family) and your soon to be husband.
once again it should be within his means and nothing outrageous..unfortunately many Muslims dont abide by that rule. he should not have to get a loan for it and/or go into debt for it. This is the Islamic way!