Re: Haq Mahar
Even though it is in islam, Most of the women in my family have not taken haq mehar, I think anyone who has asked for it has been made to feel really bad for asking for it, most of the men will only consider giving it if they were to divorce their wifes.
By the way how much is haq mehar? Who decides this amount? My bhabis was only 5000 rupees which is only £50.
I think it should be enough to get you by for a while but not too much that it will put your husband in financial strain. Would 500,000 rupees be too much? That is only about £500.