Kids are throwing a new year party, it makes us nervous a bit. So my wise thing is to ask for a list of people coming in and I volunteered to be a bouncer and they declined. I don’t want police showing up like last time. So if you are having a party keep the lid on chit.
2017 I am going to cut down on endurance exercise and do more lifting and compound exercise, I am going to excercise more emotional control and bond with family and mentor them.
Arrghhhhhh!! I was right there was a disturbance, someone was being rowdy and they were asked to leave and didn’t and a fight broke out. These same kids made some racial insults also. Funny thing is it was all his white friends who kicked these trouble makers behind. Most of the time it is not your kids but the others you have to worry about. I think I won’t allow them to have a party anymore. The good that came out of it was we got to see how great his friends are and how awesome his girlfriend is.
^^^^^^^Further discussion made me conclude that although the other kid was misbehaving but my boy did not need to escalate it, he did get some racist comments but part of that was people were reacting to his aggression. He realized that he was partly to blame and called to apologize. I will try to talk to him about his stress and anxiety and see if I can make him watch a couple of conflict resolution videos. One thing I like about western behavior is people admit to their mistake and apologize and try to change their behavior.
Let me say something regarding this. I think we all feel the same way. But this should be categorized in two. One is those which we can control. Other which we cannot do anything about. So when we look back we should just worry about what we could do about but we didnt. Thats all. Make life easier. Happy new year!
Consider it a old year now..already 6 days gone. Before you know it we’ll be counting down on 2018. Stay happy! I’m sure Southie has some good jokes in his pocket to make you feel better