Happiness lies within u but...

[Reha]

Re: Happiness lies within u but…

@jhunjhunpari

**You must have read or heard this many times that happiness lies within you…i was listening to some motivational speaker today and he said that no one around u(whether its ur relations or money or anything) can give u happiness unless u are happy from inside…anyways my point is: how is it possible that behavior of people around u don’t have affect on you and u stay happy? For example,if ur husband is rude to you or fights with u,how can u be “happy from within” ignoring the external factor?..how can u be happy on ur own? How do u explain these two factors “happiness lies within u” and "behavior of people around you(for example)?..Isn’t a wife dependent on her husband for happiness?how can one be so indifferent and remain happy?

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I think the speaker might have been referring to insecurities. Which we all have.

Yes, our SOs do have an impact on how happy we are. But should they have an impact on our self esteem? Our self image? Our confidence in our abilities? I don’t think so. Those things come from within.