Re: handling rejection
i think rejection does hurt even if u don't like the guy, because deep in our heart all of us boys or girls wants to be liked by the rishta, even if we are going to reject it, we still wants them to like us.
the only time when it bothered me when one of the stupid family rejected me because i am not punjabi. i just wish they would have come with a better reason then that because apparently they were very religious people, his father is an imam in houston and hafiz-e-quran and half of his family is hafiz-e-quran and in islmaic universties in saudi arabia to become alim. that kind of reason that comeing from them still bothers me.
but ALHAMDULILAH i am just glad that i didn't end up with such a shallow minded people.