Re: Handling my father’s dislike for my stepchildren
If he won’t change then it’s good you know that; it’s a case of making do with the situ.
As I said kudos to you dude. He never supported the marriage so in essence this is something that is a part and package of that. But that’s not to say it won’t change.
Perhaps RV’s suggestions are something you can put in practice? How does your Father feel about Fathers Day? Maybe the kids can do something with him, or go out together as a family? Or is that too much too soon?
Whatever you plan to do OP good luck and stay happy.
As long as everyone knows their limits (e.g. the kids don’t annoy DadaJaan during naps etc) you can make the situ workable. I’ve seen it done so know it can work. I’m not saying your Father will change or come round to the idea but he will in time begin to get that these kids are a part of your life and if they make you happy then there isn’t much harm in him being supportive and dealing with them or them running around but it will take a lot of time, blood, sweat and tears. Stay strong.
You may however hit a few teething problems when other siblings have children. But as long as your own marriage is strong and the children understand they are loved by both you and their mother it shouldn’t be an issue; InshAllah.