does this paly any role in ur making ristha decision .. should it or not ? .. will u feel guilty if soemof u famil members are relaly owrrie daoubt their son .. n mother is crying n sad for him cuz he gets into trouble n stuff n his family is pareshan for him n becuz of him .. n telling u plex dont marry anyoen else .. its relaly hard to find rishtas these days .. soemtimes im up all night thinking about waht to do .. guilty feeling is akiller .. waht would u do .. ?
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sumtym i iz sad buh oder tym me happeyyy. buh i tink u shud try sleepy pillz to get u 2 sleepy sleep
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^ lol ... i odnt nknw raely.
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You shouldnt marry someone just because you feel sorry for them or their family. If you like the guy AND you feel sorry for the family, then that is different. But if you cant see yourself married to this guy forever, do not marry him because his mother keeps asking you to marry him. That is not a good enough reason to marry someone. What if the guy himself doesnt want to get married, but he is being pressured by his parents? He probably wont make the best husband in a situation like that, and you dont want to ruin your life all for some auntie who gave you a sob story.
If you have to ask on a public forum "should I marry this guy?", then honestly, he probably is not the right guy to marry. You will know when the right guy comes along, and you wont need an opinion from anyone else, let alone a bunch of strangers who know nothing about your situation or life. When I first met my husband, I knew right away he was the one for me.....I did not ask anyone (except Allah of course) if they thought he was right for me. You will know it in your heart, and you will not be confused about it.
Please, for the sake of Allah, for the sake of your sanity, for the sake of your life.....do not marry a guy based on trivial things. By trivial things I mean:
Money
Promises of world travel
Guilt
Looks
etc.
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You shouldnt marry someone just because you feel sorry for them or their family. If you like the guy AND you feel sorry for the family, then that is different. But if you cant see yourself married to this guy forever, do not marry him because his mother keeps asking you to marry him. That is not a good enough reason to marry someone. What if the guy himself doesnt want to get married, but he is being pressured by his parents? He probably wont make the best husband in a situation like that, and you dont want to ruin your life all for some auntie who gave you a sob story.
If you have to ask on a public forum "should I marry this guy?", then honestly, he probably is not the right guy to marry. You will know when the right guy comes along, and you wont need an opinion from anyone else, let alone a bunch of strangers who know nothing about your situation or life. When I first met my husband, I knew right away he was the one for me.....I did not ask anyone (except Allah of course) if they thought he was right for me. You will know it in your heart, and you will not be confused about it.
Please, for the sake of Allah, for the sake of your sanity, for the sake of your life.....do not marry a guy based on trivial things. By trivial things I mean:
Money Promises of world travel Guilt Looks etc.
i do like him n he likes me too .. but hes not m bf or anything .. im not close with him .. we are formal with each other n keep a distance .. sometimes the heart plays with u after i dunt want to regret .. i dun at to say no to god rishta for lifetime headache just bcs of temporary moment of heart fluttering .. im confused n btw i can travel the world myself if i wanted to .. im not poor ..
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Reading this seems like an examination 
what you need is a typing course, i m not trying to be rude. Just trying to help you out
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Try this for now. It might help. You can apply this to the laptop as well…
i think what you are asking is whether its ok to marry someone out of guilt. If thats the case, then i don’t think you should.
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Soni can you plz start writing more clearly? 
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vat i wan sy iz tht u ryt rlly stpdly and ald kfhl laf fhyrl lyal tlkjry a lkjhryal ljr
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Calling my optometrist for eye exam
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Thats even a bigger torture :halo:
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Vat iz ze pbrlm thghou? Aks ze bf 2 tke u 4 a dayyte to a cmptr sph so u cna buy a frikkig kee bord for haven skae oh crap but u sed u re nt poor so why u nt chnge ur brkn kee bord?
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^
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No hamdardi doesn't play a role in my rishta decision. Its my entire life.
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I thought I"m the only one but thx God :cobra:
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A sincere advise for you 
aap mairi tarah urdu main apni sari paraishani likh dain :cobra:
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^
r u really this pathetic and immature that u cant take it that i told u to buzz off so ur bumping my old threads .. ? .. get a life buddy !
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soni we found a guy for you. 
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u actaully when and hunted down all my old threads to show ur a smart- a$$ .. dont u anything better to spend ur energy on ? ..LOSer
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QFT. 
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soni27 looking for rishta?