Ham Tum

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Re: Ham Tum

@Ashy2010

The credit of success and failure of a couple’ life goes to both the husband and wife. Both have to be in a relationship of give and take. ***Women don’t like words like obey, control, superiority of husbands etc and its just becomes a matter of ego. *On the other hand, men think that they are in-charge of the women once they marry them and make them do anything they like. **Why don’t they understand that there should be cooperation and understanding and no one is superior to other. **They complement each other and can only live best lives if they understand this.

Now this leads to another discussion. I always thought and heard that men were more egoist

*I dont mind acknowledging men being superior. Just that even inferiors have rights and need to be understood and appreciated. Now greater men however would acknowledge that even if religion gives them this right of superiority their heaven still lies under the inferior’s feet And if it be about husband-wife so well said they do complement each other so need to honour another’s place in your life.

I loved your last sentence.