Re: Ham Tum
very well said Ashy. Its lovely to read from a single girl’s point of view how girls look towards to the males for assistance and protection. Maybe it will give away a better impression of us womenfolk (YES WE NEVER CONSIDER OURSELVES SUPERIOR AND WE LOVE AND APPRECIATE TAKEN CARE AND PROTECTED BY YOU) :halo:
Well I believe in her hearts of hearts every woman wants to be taken care of. She always looks forward to a man (be it her father, brother, son or husband) for support and protection. Its only when they get disappointed from their men they start complaining and discovering every possible fault in their men (well yes we are great at finding faults too 
) Halanke a husband’s gheebat (what a wife does among her friends or family or in front of third persons) is the worst of all. My study of Ahadees is very very limited but I know this much how much wives owe to their husbands, BUT sometimes men forget that we women need some tending, sweetness and understanding too. Or maybe they are just not tha good at showing, and this is what pisses off their wives. Other than that, we always need each other, we are simply incomplete otherwise because this is how we are created. You see we cant even procreate without each other :halo: