i dunno what is the logic behind halala..the method of halal seems awkward to me
as u all know if couple got divorced after marrige and wana marry again then the bride has to do halala cuz islams said this to the girl if u wana marry again your ex husband i mean 2nd nikkah with same hubby whom she gets divorce or he give him doesnt matter.
the method of halala is u need to marry an another guy and u have to sleep with him to occur halala i mean .pysical relation… then u get divorce from him after one day or week doesnt matter then u will be able to marry your ex hubby again otherwise u cant marry him again…
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i m sure there will be a reason of halala…in islam but the method is quite weird to me…from a girls point of view
**Let me put in precise words, you are saying this:
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Shia and much Sunni jurisprudence of Sharia disallows a couple remarrying after having been through three divorces.
Some Sunni schools view a triple talaq, when the husband saying “I divorce you” three times in a row, as equivalent to three single talaq. Other Sunnis and Shia treat that as a single divorce, arguing that Muhammad did so and Umar having no authority to change that (Muslim 3491, 3492).
Theoretically couples cannot remarry until the ex-wives marry another men, to ensure that divorce is not taken lightly. However there is a legal stratagem that can be used to allow remarriage for couples who repent their decision to separate.
It requires the former wife to marry somebody else (and sometimes have sexual intercourse in between). Usually this is achieved by marriage with somebody who agrees to help the couple.
same but i know some condiser 3 talaqs equal to one but as i know its wrong...after 3 talaqs yr relation is finished and u need to do halala if wana marry same man again
The whole point of halala is a WARNING for the husband that he does NOT give divorce to her wife.
The issue of how many n how talaqs are given does not matter or come to this.
if the husband hass given the talaq of ''Ba'in'' then she has to do halala and if talaq of ''Raj'ee'' then with in three of her periods he can take her back but after that he cant.
since i said its a warning.. WHAT are the POSSIBLITIES that the second husband will divorce her so you can marry her again. its very unliikely ..and here is where shia and sunni come in to this;
1) according to sunni .. if first husband gets his ex to marry again and have halala done so she can return to her OR the second husbnd marries her for a week or so what ever ..and in the END he can divorce her so she can marry - JUST NIKAAH with the ex again << BOTH these are NOT allowed.
2) shia as far as i knw allow this i think .. not sure about it ..but in shia - not all ..something called 'Mut'a' is Allowed . Mut'a is marriage for a certiain time limit like a week or for money etc. however in sunnis ''Mut'a is TOTALLY NOT ALLWED.
therfore. IF first husbands gets his ex married or the second guy marries her to do halala JUST So she can return to her EX .. THIS falls under 'Mut'a Marraige.
Anyways, This issue isnt as you have put it.. :) Even Allah SWT says in a Hadith e Qudsi that 'Talaq is one thing which is Halal/Jaa'iz to do YET its the MOST hated'' ..why ..for this sole purpose .. so husbands dunt divorce their wives ..and retake em when ever they want. and even then Islam Allows ''halala system'' cos the chances of teb second husband giving her wife awy to the ex .. are very very minute. Unless like 20 years later he divorces her for a genuine reason. then the ex can take her back through Nikaah.
same but i know some condiser 3 talaqs equal to one but as i know its wrong...after 3 talaqs yr relation is finished and u need to do halala if wana marry same man again
Islam is not the Joke, niether its laws and procedures.. yes Humans have made it a joke
You are right when says that an important contract ( yes Nikkah is a contract between two souls) can just nullify by saying three words...
Talaq has to be done in the presence of witnesses and their are other restrictions before one should proceed with Talaq... in order to understand the concept of Halala one should really understand how a Islamic Talaq take place
if interested i can post all those procedures laid down in Quran!!!!
if a couple divorces 1st time they canget back together before end of iddat or remarry after iddat time has passed...new nikkah and new mehar. lets say they have differnces and they divorce again but either they get back together before iddat ends or they remarry in a year or 2 or 10 years. and same thing happens 3rd time . now if divorce happens there is no way they can get marry bcz think logically if u cannot manage to live together after all this .....it means better try someone else. but but but the purpose of this marriage is not halala....u cannot on purpose marry someone with the intention of getting divorce from him so u can go back to that previous husband .............halala is such a far fetched thing that i think u wud reach that point after long trials and who wud want to go throughit???????