hairdressers, masseuers, doctors.. etc

Or she can just cut her hair for him…and give him a massage.

And how does she know that the hairdresser or masseur is a female? Did she go with him? Did he tell her about it? Would he even tell her about them…if he were interested in them?

If she is this freaked out about the issue…then perhaps she needs to talk to her husband about it. I wonder if he know about her fears. Maybe talking to him will provide some reassurance.