HADITH-blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses.”

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ASALAM ALAIKUM,

Prophet Muhammad (sal Allahu alaihi wa sallam) said: “The most blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses.”

I truly believe on this hadith ALHUMDULILAH and i don’t want to spend so much on my wedding I have clearly said to my siblings not to arrange any kind of dance function. In order to make our weddings more blessed we need to abandon these customs.

Most ppl would say that I am outdated , insane and they would not agree with me but this is only my thought. Look around u there are so many ppl suffering from illness, poverty, depression, hunger especially in Pakistan please guys I beg you giv more and more charity please .ppl are dying plzz help them. Ppl are spending lakhoon on their wedding dress to wear it only once for few hours .. I am not saying that buy 5000 ka jora and get married but please whenever u spend on whatever just keep those ppl in ur mind they have no clothes.no food .. and we all are running after a branded makeup , designer bridal jora spending 5-6000 on one lawn outfit ( ppl are dying they don’t hav 10rs to buy a roti for themselves/family) we all have our lists ready like what to buy next even though we have tons of nars blushes,mascars nail polishes, diff branded perfumes.

Why don’t we care anymore … of u r earning 200 or 100 Dollars / Pounds/ Aed / Rs whatever cant you donate 15 -20 dollar/dirham/pound/Rs every week or everyday or everymonth .. if you don’t hav money giv them clothes, prepare food at ur home make 2 or 1 plate extra giv it to poor/needy ppl ur monthly budget wont break if u take out 4 or 3 extra plates of food every month, giv them water.. every one is surrounded with LOADS & LOADS OF problems , some ppl r mehroom from olaad , peysa, gher , some are blessed wth everything but they are not satisfied..

just take a note how much are we spending over clothes shopping movies makeup accessories and other stuff .. everybody wants behter se behtareen .. whenever a latest mobile/ laptop tv anything ( just name it ) comes in the market we all want/ dream it … but WHY …are we not blessed enough ??? try to save water our generation or next generation need it.. our daughters/son and their daughters/sons NEED IT.. try to save papers,tissues etc etc ( i know tissue is not an expensive thing we can buy it under 5 dirhams but try to save it ) save ppl, save earth

I m really sorry to giv u a speech .. but I am really hurt I cant watch them dying they are humans they are MUSLIMS and r like us .. THIS IS NOT MOHAMMAD (SAW) HAS TAUGHT
I have seen on tv chotey chotey bache like 9 saal 10 saal k bachey kitni mehnat ker rhe hai . kia hum apni olaad se bhai behen se itna kaam kerwa saktey hai … I LITERALLY CANT WATCH THEM LIKE THISS ..insan bohat keemti hain

I just have a humble request plz donate as much as u can plzzz WE HAVE TO SAVE THEM , THERE IS NO 1 OUT THERE FOR THEM……. THEY R ALONE please do not over spend ur money ALLAH has given u a chance or honour to help others

YOU’LL BE BLESSED INSHALLAH .. ALLAH IS GHAFOR-UR-RAHEEM

PS – Refrain from saying any thing bad PLEASE

CHARITY SAVESThe Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “Save yourself from hellfire by giving even half a date-fruit in charity.” - Sahih Al-Bukhari, Volume 2, Hadith 498

GOD IS AWARE OF THE GOOD THAT YOU DO*“They ask you (O Muhammad) what they should spend in charity. Say: ‘Whatever you spend with a good heart, give it to parents, relatives, orphans, the helpless, and travellers in need. Whatever good you do, God is aware of it.’”* - The Holy Quran, 2:215

THE IMPORTANCE OF CHARITYThe Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said: “The believer’s shade on the Day of Resurrection will be his charity.” - Al-Tirmidhi, Hadith 604

MAY ALLAH ( SWT ) GIV US THE ABILITY TO ACT UPON ABOVE ( AMEEN )

JAZAK ALLAH

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[Disney_Princess]

Re: HADITH-blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses.”

I know exactly where you are coming from. I want a small, simple wedding, not too extravagent. And yes, the family is too busy thinking what xyz will say. When weddings and occasions like these come up, we often forget our religion, it’s just really really sad to watch.

We all need to think about the future ahead and ask ourselves ‘is it really worth it?’, and I think most of us will think it’s not because the money could be better spent elsewhere.

May Allah guide us on the right path. Ameen.

[barqun]

Re: HADITH-blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses.”

MashaAllah

I like the idea, but do you guys have any idea to replace the dance function.

[STA]

Re: HADITH-blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses.”

jazakAllah khair for post.

[KKF]

Re: HADITH-blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses.”

jazaak Allah...median path is always the right path jise mazhabi istilaah meN "miyaanah ravii" kahte haiN. apnii Haisiyat ke mutaabiq Kharch karnaa chaahiye taa k Allah ne jaise navaaza hai uskaa Haq adaa ho sake. aur isii taraH maqrooz ho kar shaadiiyoN pe be-jaa iKhraajaat karnaa bhii nihaayat Ghalat hai. Allah ham sab ko hidaayat de...aameen :)

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thank you everyone for supporting this TRUTH i hope we all can REMEMBER what our PROPHET MOHAMMAD (SAW) TAUGHT US AMEEN… it’s not about " heysiat " kkF I CAN AFFORD A LAVISH wedding ALHUMDULILAH but i dont want to and i will NOT INSHALLAH instead i’ll giv that money to gareeb maan baap ta k wo apni beeti ki shadi ker sakeyn.

whenever i step to any restaurant ppl are wasting food ASTAGHFIRULLA and i dont understand WHY if u dont want to eat WHY do u order !! ppl are suffering from poverty they have ZERO tolerance now bz of their halaat .. they have no light,no water,no gas no money to buy food … where will they go !!! do they deserve it ..ALLAH TALAH has given us money and authority to HELP THEM NOT to buy Iphone 4,latest laptop,nars blushes ,armani perfumes ,designer outfits… how many u want??? is there an end ???ppl r dying everyday everyday … what if u r next !!! what will u do with iphone,laptops and branded stuff !!

why ppl DONT UNDERSTAND !! bz they are not a victim. ALLAH NA karen i am not giving any1 bud-dua .. BUT WHO WILL UNDERSTAND IF WE DONT AND WILL NOT ?? DO NOT TURN UR EYES FROM THEM thats y they r doing choori daka ,loot maar .. PLEASE FEEL FOR THEM .. they feel hunger, dard , garmi too

I just PRAY ALLAH SAVE THEM ,SAVE US , SAVE US FROM THE HELL FIRE ..HE’LL take a hisab of Every single peny we spend,Every single peny and it’s in QURAN

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@barqun

MashaAllah

I like the idea, but do you guys have any idea to replace the dance function.

there is no harm in halka phuki enjoyment shadi is ur day u want to make it memorable but do it in ur daira u know what i mean i'll request do not go beyond .. just keep thos ppl in mind who dont have resources to arrange a simple shadi.
my advice would be " be sure the money you spend reflects the person you are, NOT the person society wants you to be " jazak ALLAH

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@Disney_Princess

I know exactly where you are coming from. I want a small, simple wedding, not too extravagent. And yes, the family is too busy thinking what xyz will say. When weddings and occasions like these come up, we often forget our religion, it’s just really really sad to watch.

We all need to think about the future ahead and ask ourselves ‘is it really worth it?’, and I think most of us will think it’s not because the money could be better spent elsewhere.

May Allah guide us on the right path. Ameen.

AMEEN ..

[giggles2009]

Re: HADITH-blessed nikah is the one with the least expenses.”

Ok.