Is this more common among guys or girls? How do you deal with someone e.g your spouse who is a habitual complainer?
I will probably look for neela thotha (poison) after two counseling sessions.
^^ sab yahee kahte hain magar marna aasaan naheen
marna na sahi, maarna tou assan hai na?
Are you saying people who are habitual complainers can't be changed?
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Are you saying people who are habitual complainers can't be changed?
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Precisely, yes!
Not unless they wish to change themselves. Fayz you haven;t married her yet have you? So try changing her before that and if she doesn;t change then just dump her :p
You are complaining about complain*ors*? What does that make you? :D
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You are complaining about complain*ors? What does that make you? :D
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An enlightened social worker creating awareness ;)
The replies don't sound very promising...
I was hoping for something like...
-Don't lose hope..
-People change..habits change
-Complaining is not all that bad...it motivates you to do things etc
oh well...
FF, I don't think we can change people...you might have changed a few with your charm though
I wish I had Fayz!
Why does she complain? Do you think she actually may have reason to complain? Maybe YOU are the one who needs to change and that would bring an end to her complaining automatically :p
Who is *she *? :-D I’m yet to meet a woman who doesn’t complain so I was just wondering if it is something that always comes with the package.
But I guess you are right…men in general need to raise their tolerance level…so what if it cause a brain explosion...no biggie.
Nahi Fayz I don't believe it's a part of the package. But again its better to be vocal about something if you have a problem instead of keeping it locked up in ur heart/mind. But then having a problem with every little thing that happens is silly too. In my opinion complaining reduces as people mature, learn to give eachother space and compromise with eachother. If compromise is from both sides there will be less complaining, if its one-sided ofcourse the one always having to compromise will complain. And then there are people who can just never be pleased and will always complain. It's better to keep a distance from such ppl or give them neela thotha as u suggested.
What do the women u meet generally complain about?
Generally, I come across women who are not happy with themselves in one way or the other…the issues range from physical attributes to Hypochondriasis to simple psychological disorders.
If making money wasn’t an issue then I would have chosen to be a shrink with my little table at some big intersection, 2 green parrots and a deck of cards…
You are making me regret our chats on MSN Fayz. 
haha! No you are perfectly normal...and gorgeous if I might add ;)
Are you implying they would complain about paying you what you ask for??? You sexist!
Re: Habitual complaining
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Is this more common among guys or girls? How do you deal with someone e.g your spouse who is a habitual complainer?
I will probably look for neela thotha (poison) after two counseling sessions.
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Habitual complaining are allowable grounds for divorce in most places in North America so you shouldnt have any problems getting out of the relationship, if that is what you desire.