As the title suggests.. All you blokes on GS, would you?
What if she was pregnant and the weight she put on was due to the pregnancy? Do u men understand that once a lady has a baby, looking after a child is a full-time job and all energy is used up looking after the baby and that she no longer has the energy or time to cook/eat healthily or go to the gym?
Ladies, if your husband made a negative comment about your weight, how would that make you feel? Men, do you understand why a woman would feel this way?..
Re: Guys, Would you dump/cheat on/leave your GF/partner/wife if she put on weight?..
my husband nags me all the time about my weight gain…but what do I do?
I start to eat even more…
oh and putting on weight coz of having a baby is a myth. I put on weight because I started to eat more and became lazy, nothing to do with having babies.
Re: Guys, Would you dump/cheat on/leave your GF/partner/wife if she put on weight?..
umm.. not in my case both my pregnancies i gained over 50lbs…i didnt over eat or anything
my husband really never said anything about losing weight but once we were chit chatting while i was cleaning the closet and came across one of my shaadi suits and he asked me who the suit belonges to.. when i told him it was my old suit he looked at me confused saying ‘you fit in that before?’ it made me giggle and realize i needed to lose weight.. and i did still dont fit into that outfit but good enough
Re: Guys, Would you dump/cheat on/leave your GF/partner/wife if she put on weight?..
hubby might chide or encourage me to lose weight if that does happen as he is more health conscious than appearance wise conscious about me. But anybody who actually cheats,dumps his wife for this shouldnt be right in his head and we all know as we age a drooping belly and balding head are also there for men. And it's just not the woman who gets overweight :@:
Re: Guys, Would you dump/cheat on/leave your GF/partner/wife if she put on weight?..
question is how much weight, why and what is one doing about it.
If its a significant amount of weight, and its because of poor habits and lack of discipline, and there is not enough effort to address it, then it could be an issue. what comes out of it depends on the person then.
and before someone starts lectures on love and its not based on looks, thats fine, not talking about things that happen naturally and are not in your control, wrinkles, other physical signs of aging, but what one does to oneself, priorities, and how important is a spouse's preferences are has an impact.
as far as comments and feedback to each other goes, I believe that spouses should not walk on eggshells around each other, be sensitive, be honest and be direct.
still dont fit into that outfit but good enough 