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I guess I pulled a contrarian then…something you once claimed nobody could do, 
LOL.
No worries, it’s just been a stressful day.
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Sometimes attitude and actions speak louder than words. Its not in our desi nature to point blank tell our BF's or GF's that its over. We try our best to gradually finish it by decreasing the level of interaction
I get that. BUT...decreasing level of interaction doesn't have to entail cheating, right?
Never mind, we're just gonna go around in circles. Let's just call stealing "sharing" and call it a day.
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Aww…my apologies. 
I admit this is getting a bit stale.
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Dude..i thought you were man of the house. Show her who the boss…
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I know that they are two different things. However if it's been mutually decided (not assumptions) that a relationship is exclusive and at some point either party (guy/girl) wants out.....be clear with your partner and end it as opposed to not telling them at all and starting an affair with someone else. It's the decent thing to do.
This is exactly what was on my mind while opening this thread. If a person knows that it's not going to work out & even then if he keeps her under impression that this relationship still exists & then go ahead & try finding someone else behind her back instead of talking things our clearly to her & ending things appropriately. Doesn't that come under cheating?
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Then it would be those guys’ cowardliness! & now don’t say those guys are so nice, considerate & kind-hearted that, they don’t want to break the girl’s heart by talking & explaining things clearly 
I think the main intention of such guys is that, they want to take a chance with another girl while keeping the first one in loops, so that, just incase if things don’t work out with the new one, they would have the first one there already, or else they would heartlessly breakup with the first one if things start working out with the second one!
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What I find interesting in this thread is that most of the guys have not condemned cheating instead they have put all the blame on the girls of being stupid, just that says a lot about how a man’s brain works 
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Just a question:
So, I was just wondering that, especially about those guys who cheat on their girlfriends in a relationship, wives, etc, especially those who cheat on their girlfriends & simply lead them on with fake promises of marriage, etc & just vanish one day... I just want to ask you guys that, how does this act of yours make you feel later in life?** Does it make you feel guilty at any point in life? Or does it make you feel proud of yourself? **:@:
I am just gona admit, am a big fat cheater.... I am so annoyed at pissed at my self >>>> I will just press Ctrl + Alt + Del
Bye good people.
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u ka dimagh buhat chalta hai.
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my multi aint fat
I am just gona admit, am a big fat cheater.... I am so annoyed at pissed at my self >>>> I will just press Ctrl + Alt + Del
Bye good people.
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my multi aint fat
dont stop me from pressing ctrl + alt + delete ... by making me feel better abt myself :'(
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OK let me press it for u
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nahi, i know u r just saying and wont actually do it.
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lolss - multis they know everything
nahi, i know u r just saying and wont actually do it.
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And coming back to original topic, no girl in this day and age is stupid enough, not to see a cheater before he cheated. If a relationship did not work out, in spite of guy promising that he would marry her, then its not cheating. Majority of the guys start a relationship with intention of getting married to the same girl. During that relationship, what should be their options if they see the weaknesses in the girl and realize that compatibility is impossible? What would be the approach for him to back out? (same question to the girls who realized that they are in wrong relationship).
Bottom line is that, why backing out of a relationship is always considered cheating or disloyalty?
i always wondered this last question .. good observation