Guys who cheat

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Exactly!

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Dating is a casual encounter when you're just testing the waters. You can't cheat when you're dating sine there isn't any commitment at this stage.

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Exactly

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The commitment is that your not dating someone else...

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ya but the whole purpose of dating is to find out if you are comapatible wid your partner... if it's NOT working out - then you should LEAVE / Withdraw from the relationship - instead of cheating with someone else... cause that someone else is being cheated on as well

mera saar ghoom raha hai - do you see the cheating circle cause by one GUY!

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well dating is a bad thng to do ..and girls shuld knw their limits...because guys will never change and we cnt chnge thm either...

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guyz can never change - this is hurtful but true

What really painful is - paki guys date all these Guju girls and have full fledged relationship with them - and then they come back home looking for a "untouched" bride.

How is it ok for them to do this?

I feel sorry for the girl he marries - cause she would not know anything about this guys past relationships

In these cases I wish the girl in turn is also a "secret whore" that the guy neva knew about!

then it would be fun right?! :D

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I know what u mean about the double standards...I know a pakistani guy who comes to the student health clinic where I volunteer for STD tests every 6 months or so...he told me that he'll "kill me" if i tell anyone that he goes there. and he's always hatin on paki girls...saying they're stuck up, always want rich guys, etc. and that's why he has to date spanish girls. but the thing is, IF a pakistani girl did agree to date him, he would dismiss her as a slut. this guy is actually really intelligent, but he fails to see his failed logic in this instance.

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i know many people who would go out on weekends with their friends, even go to pub etc, while their wives and kids are at home. i asked the wives several times why dont you guys ask them to stay home or take kids/wives with them.

and what they told me was that their husbands have their own lives too. they work hard during the week and want to have time for themselves. so what about the wives who look after the kids 7 days 24 hours?

i told them to go and have life for themselves as well. why let their husbands do this. its the weekend when whole family should be together and these husbans leave their wives behind.
these wives are blinded by their husbands and dont see life for themselves. i always argue with these ladies but they trust their husband so much that cant question them.

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What's your question?

Cafe Mafia
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Another thread with no start and no end. :vivo:

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ROTFL!..:rotfl:

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In this case, because she was dating. She's dating a guy...ergo he's scum for dating her. Serves her right for dating scum. And by virtue of her dating, she can't rightly find a decent guy...since those who date are scum.

ALL sympathies to the girl if she married some a-hole of a guy who cheats on her after marriage...in fact, the guy ought to be culled from the human race in that case...

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Well, a lot of times people who cheat others get cheated sometime in their life sooner or later. This is the principle of nature.

I might be wrong, but the child who cheats his/her parents by getting into a relationship with a member of opposite gender without giving a right to their parents to know about it, shouldn't expect any "Barakah" (blessings) in their relationships. I am not talking about all cases but only certain cases I have come to know.

Whenever I feel that the devil tries to create a misunderstanding between me and my wife, it is immediately removed one way or the other by the circumstances that are created immediately after that misunderstanding. I strongly believe that this revival of relationship is not because of any qualities in me or my wife, but because of our parents duas and blessings of Allah which comes with following the sunnah of the Prophet (saw) in our daily lives.

^In short, the relationship which is based on cheating (ones parents) have a lot of chances to end in cheating between the partners.

Allah (s.w.t) knows BEST!

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i agree with u on this.."what goes around,comes around"..

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Those guys and girls should not be dating each other at first place.

Na aisa kaam karain na koi masla ho.

Why Only Pakistani guy is blamed why not stupid girls.

I blame all of them girls and boys both.........No matter Pakistani, Indian, USA, Uk.........No matter boys where they belong to they are cheaters.

Only cheaters go for dating and those kind of things.

But you can't say many Pakistani..........or many other........you can say a few or some.

You won't ever find many cheater in a country.

Cheating is bad no matter whoever do that.

Is it okay to Post like Pakistani and Indians are like that cause I want to ask that type of questions but I'm scared to ask and offend people.

Is it okay to post like that many Indians or Pakisani are cheaters or frauds.

An arab abbroaches you for shadi burbose
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Jazak Allah Brother.

I'm so impressed the way you post, your knowledge and everything.

I love to read your post.

I wish if i could have ability to post like you.

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^In short, the relationship which is based on cheating (ones parents) have a lot of chances to end in cheating between the partners.

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but what if the girl meets guy - and before introducing him to her parents - she NEEDS to know if he is even worth of the introduction? So this is the "getting to know phase" - dating!

so I don't think that the girl is "cheating" her parents...

btw, Submission to peace - your answers are very thoughtful and guides to the right path!

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lets kill all pakistani men! we’r good for nothing anyway :rolleyes:

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LOL…you made me laugh.