A thread for the guys of GS! Some questions for you guys and how you would deal with them in your marriage.
- How importent is it that your wife covers? What if you tell her to cover up, not hijab, but lose clothing and she does not want to?
Do you want to show her off to the world or keep her all to yourself?
What if your mother and wife just never get along, how to you handle that? Do you even come in between them, or do you ignore and let the women handle it?
What if she hates cooking and your mom was the best cook ever? Would you mind that she does not want to cook for you?
As far as i have seen, girls never look as nice and neat as they do when they go out. So, does it bother you if she looks like a hot mess when she's at home, do you take that personally? Do you want her to be dresses nice for you? And i'm not talking jewelry or anything, but nice smelling, a nice casual outfit, maybe even a little kajal.
Would you rather have a housewife or a working woman?
i will sort this out with her before getting married.....she going outside wearing those "western type" tight clothes or showing off is something will not tolerate. I wont force her to wear hijab but appropriate clothes will do :)
Depends why they dont get along...my mom is fine and i know she wont have any problems with her bahu unless she is an ass.....but ofcourse InshAllah she wont be because i will choose a good wife not a brat! But again if for some reason they dont get along then i guess we will move out and live alone? hmmm
Won't stand a chance! at least she should know the basic cooking....and will have to cook at least 2-3 times a week....and as for the rest we will go out and eat ;)......not really an issue is it? :D
Nope! not a problem at all.....i wouldnt mind...and will certainly wont make an issue of it....when shes at home she has the right to dress up as she want to...:)
100% a house wife.....asking your wife to go out & work & earn is a SLAP on a men face.....though i wont force her to stay at home all day.....she will have the permission to go out & do some volunteer work if she really wants to....but at no cost i will alllow her to work for "money" because this is my job to provide her the money & whatever else she wants. :)
Any more questions?