**1. How importent is it that your wife covers? What if you tell her to cover up, not hijab, but lose clothing and she does not want to?
Do you want to show her off to the world or keep her all to yourself?**
I really don’t understand this question…what do you mean by loose clothing?
Show her off 
…if she is at a party or gathering with me…it is showing off your wife?
2. What if your mother and wife just never get along, how to you handle that? Do you even come in between them, or do you ignore and let the women handle it?
Women do not get along and I would not come in between them.
3. What if she hates cooking and your mom was the best cook ever? Would you mind that she does not want to cook for you?
Last I check women love to cook. She may not like to cook the eastern food like salan…daal…etc coz most of the today’s girls like western food, but still no issues if she does not want to cook. I do not want a chef rather wife and its same with my mom.
**4. As far as i have seen, girls never look as nice and neat as they do when they go out. So, does it bother you if she looks like a hot mess when she’s at home, do you take that personally? Do you want her to be dresses nice for you? And i’m not talking jewelry or anything, but nice smelling, a nice casual outfit, maybe even a little kajal. **
no issues…a sweet smile will work…
5. Would you rather have a housewife or a working woman?
She should know what is needed to run the house.