There are lots of threads about girls and marriage, but I have been wondering, what is the experience like for a guy.
In my family it seems that most rishtey are done by the parents without the girl or boy having met/seen each other. Although I understand from a girls point of view, I have always wondered what it’s like for the guy.
What happens exactly? Do the parents ask the boy that we are going to ask such and such for their daughter, and is that ok? Do guys get as emotional about it all? And what if the larki wali say no, isn’t it a bit disheartening for the guy? Or are they not really that bothered?
Also, if they do get engaged etc, do they feel it as much as girls seem to do, and wonder about things? Or is it just we will see when the time for the wedding comes? I mean, do they get as attatched as girls do, and accept this one person?
From what I have observed, most of my guy cousins are not very serious about it, they are like yes lets get married, but it seems as though thay are not really concerned about whom they are getting married to?
From what i have seen..there are 2 types of guys..
1.The marriage seekers......they get excited like girls, lose their minds, get addicted to the phone, keep nagging and fighting with others about the 'arrangements'
2.The marriage avoiders........they are not too much keen to get married, they are doing it due to family pressure/compulsion or something.......for them its just like a job or task......
Well thats sad if there are only two types. I would hope there is a middle ground. Along the lines of a guy wanting to get married and not a nagging over petty issues.
^ lol, really?
A combination of both types would seem normal! I can however imagine people that seem to be of one type or the other. Atleast the first type seems as though they would really care though! unfortunately it seems the one that matters is the second :(