Impossible no?
So tell me why is it so hard for guys to maintain a platonic relationship? Why are the majority of u all such idiots for the love of dear God…please tell humpf
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I am capable of maintaining it, honestly. All one should refrain from is looking sexy.
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this is news to me, of course they can have platonic relationships. i do not believe that every man is attracticted to every woman he is friends with..... thats just plain greedy!
I do concede however, that men may be friends with a few women that they find sexually attractive but may not act upon for various reasons.
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i feel sad now… how come the men im surrounded by dont hit on me 
am i not hot enuff??? :whimpering: sniff sniff
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Being hot has got nothing to do with men being attracted towards you.
Men are simple creatures, they dont understand complex things. They like their surroundings black and white.
Us women tend to hide ourselves behind so many colors that our original black and white self which guyz are attracted to is less visible.
When a guy comes across a complex women he does what all men do. Move on.
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Oh, I thought the thread was about two guys being in a platonic relationship....
My bad.
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True and false. We are quite capable of sifting through the colours or else you would not have tried hide yourselves in colors. I agree that we are simple by default but when intrigued by mysteries like you women, we are very alive to take up the task and fisnish it.
Khawateen: You supplement what I am saying. All is not lost lady, hot or not so dream on…
PCG: Do you like it that way?
Lazydaisy: Experienced? You seem so. Those who do not act up are gentle men but still there lies nastiness which may erupt. Refer to my first response to this post for a clear steer.
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Zaalim women are a mystery, I agree, thats what attracts men to 'em.
By colors I meant naaz and nakhray and pretending to be seedhi saadhi but inside all shaatir and weird. Men dont like that. Men like a woman who is in her comfort zone.
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If men dont like shaatir-ness in women, why be blamed? For that matter liking them to be in our comfort zone is not absurd! Mystery wystery should remain till she is not explored and once she is, she should reward the explorer generously, no?
PCG: I was worried to read your comment. It isnt romantic to feel like it. Come up with your views why platonic cant be played between men and women ceaselessly?
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Zalim you know what you are talking bout, i like being a mystery myself. :)
Minus all the stupidity ofcourse.
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Mystery minus stupidity? :love:
Yes you know what I am talking about. 
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^^ How U doin’?
(is terhaan kem kaam kerwa lo jitnay merzi mujh say hahahha)
@DB:
People care too much to carry a platonic relation. General thumb of rule is one in the relation will fall for the other eventually (considering they have good understanding and enjoy each other company). I have seen it enf times - guys would use logic … I am gonna get married someday, might as well be this one (since i am compatible) < Romantic isn’t it? Its Just a normal thing. This is also not culture specfic either.
Stupid people!
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if a guy has no sex apeal then yes it is possible. after all, it is we girls who tease them (the good ones among them) enough to be bad, isnt it? 
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girls will always check a girl out - doesnt matter if they're dating or are just good friends.
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This reply needs to be carried by Tahalka.com urgently. Its so cool to hear from horse’s mouth. 
I can hide my sex appeal if you promise to let me hold your hand while we talk about river-side birds enjoying the ride on waves 
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In my opinion a lot depends on how many female friends a guy has. If he has a few, then he'll develop feelings for those that he befriends, either out of 'fear' that this is his only 'chance' or from the lack of being able to read their behaviour (ie. getting or interpreting the wrong message) due to inexperience with the opposite sex. However if he has many female friends then this isn't the case. Believe me, just being around women a lot of the time can make you somewhat immune to them :p I know, I work with mostly women and a lot of my friends just happen to be female. I know how they operate and little things here and there can put you off them easily (esp. for a choosy sucker like me). Of course, on a few occasions you get the hots for the odd one but soon enough you'll realise their sensitivity, respect not to play or mess with their feelings and let it pass. Wasting a flourishing friendship over a stupid crush and too much testosterone is pointless.
What I'm saying is that its down to experience. Unfortunately some guys can be assholes and not control themselves.
Keep you pecker zipped :D
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^ Yes having interactions with female does keep certain things in perspective. But the situtaion you posted I don't think those will be qualify as platonic. Those are more like acquiantances at work.
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^ Somewhat yes. A small group of us are pretty close and hang out together outside work too. We’re more than just acquiantances. Then theres the non-work related friends…
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Platonic relationships are not rare..or perhaps I live in a world of my own. Society tends to stereotype the roles of men and women. With such training, people find it difficult to look beyond their stated 'roles'. And I would like to point out that even if some man finds a woman physically attractive, it, in no way, means that he would sooner or later 'fall for her'. The best thing is to know the parameters of every relationship.
Lastly; it's useless to have a relationship (platonic or unplatonic), if one or more parties are trying to hide their intentions from the other(s). So, truth and honesty are magic words.