i have a question for the guys here. and answer me truthfully. were you financially stable at the age of 22-23? and i don't mean a weekend job at wal-mart. i mean earning proper money which can be put into your savings account.
no man is stable at that age. the only men who are looking to get married at that age are not the ones who are marrying to raise a family, it's those men who have a chick, want to make sure she doesn't get anywhere, and satisfy their "urges". now you can put over this situation the garb of islam and responsibility or whatever, but the fact remains, life at that age is hard enough, it's harder when you're studying, and raising a family at the same time. maturity is a whole another issue.
ill be honest, No.
But I created this thread because over the last month we went to weddings where 2 guys have been married at such an age. Both girls were important, 1 is still at uni and doing a part time job....the other I don’t know.
Very few guys with no permanent job, still studying will import a girl. Seriously, that’s why I lolled at the idea their mum needs a maid.