Gals wanting financial stablity is normal.
Guys wanting emotional/family stablity is not good (career break/not working et al)
Guys wanting financial stablity is also not good (referring badabing thread)
Guys wanting what is normal?
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Round rotis?
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Bet the next thread will be about transgenders.
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Guys can’t demand anything, theyll be called controlling or possessive 
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Hold on a second, this could actually be a fruitful discussion if not derailed by flamers.
Why don’t we explore the idea of what reasonable expectations or demands each partner should have of each other.
Guys, what do you think you have a right to expect/require from your wife and given your reasoning behind it. And gals should do the same.
This should incorporate emotional, material, family, religious expectatations.
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Prenup.
Woman prepared to work 30+ year career and contribute financially to household (equality and all that)
Agreement that if her libido decreases (allowances made for after child birth), she will be kool with me getting a second wife (nikkah only). Same with me if I get ED and can’t cure it, I will let her go.
Kids must go to boarding school.
Understanding that if she leaves Islam - we’re done, don’t want no agnostic as a wife.
I don’t trust anyone with my emotions except my parents and siblings, so she won’t have to worry about any of that sissy stuff.
That’s pretty much my list.
She can list her needs and I will comply - but I will not be a beta.
I’m off to get a coffee, tata!
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Its actually very simple if people remembered they’re on the same team, partners not enemies and if they were willing to put in the effort to make their partner happy.
Men: want a loyal girl who loves them, makes them a priority, reassures them, respects them and their relationship, and accommodates for them based on the guys likes, dislikes and interests. The women of previous generations understood this perfectly. But the current and future generations of women no longer feel the need to accommodate they view it as too much sacrifice and compromise, asking for such basics is too much.
Women: want a loyal man who loves them, makes them a priority, reassures them, respects them and their relationship, and accommodates for them based on the girls likes, dislikes and interests. The men of previous generations never really understood this. But the current and future generations of men (at least when they are married) are starting to understand this.
Both actually want the same basic things, they just request it differently. Women nag about it so theyre called naggers and high maintenence, while men sulk or demand it and are called demanding, controlling and possessive. If we knew how to communicate openly and effectively while other partner just kept quiet for a minute to sincerely listen and try to empathically understand the partner then people would actually have successful relationships. It requires a lot consistent effort by both individuals, sometimes it’s easier to just quit.
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I’m also going to need a paternity test after the birth of each kid.
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I think we should just dedicate one thread to badabing so you all chickas can discuss him or whatever.
Now you all stop derailing this thread & discusssss.
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I think girls these days have too many demands, some of them are legit though.
Guys wanting a peaceful home is normal but in some instances peaceful home only comes after the demands are met.
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No. It becomes a perpetual viscious cycle. Just like rewarding a whining tantrum throwing kid. The more you do it, the tantrums keep getting worse.
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Dear Mods.
Please move all the badabing related posts to the new thread i created for this purpose. Since the original objective of this thread has been destroyed with useless derailment.
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[mod]** No more derailing threads with badabing. 2 separate threads have been created just for him…1 has all the posts I moved from this thread and there is a separate one created by Guppshupper. Feel free to interview badabing in those.** [/mod]