When you are in relationship and the girl you love is kind a popular one among her frens. (keep in mind girl also loves you)
So, would you feel jealous/like it?
Now, among her frens most of them are guys and She told you about each and everyone and also mentioned that they are all JUST frens…
same question as above
If you love a girl whose personality is not to say “I LOVE YOU” every moment when she is with you, instead she make the time fun by talking/listening and showing that she cares but still hesitate to say that she loves you…
what would you take out of this girl?
I just want to know what and how guys think …specially when u r with someone. No it has nothing to do with moi
One more question: y do guys always want undivided attention from a girl? :konfuse:
Point 1: Well, if he’s “popular” and i’m “not” i cant do anythin abt that can I? Its such a HS thing!! (OMG hes not popular, why u wit him ?? etcetc) lol.. but how wud I feel? I dunno.. i’d be kinda annoyed if wherever we went, there wud be ppl comin up to him n talking n stuff.. im not a group person, I like ot hang out wthi one person at a time, esp if its my “woh” I hav a friend like that, n whenever im walkin down the hallway with her, theres at lesat 5-6 ppl who r like “Heyyy N !!!” and she stops n gets into convos with them, whereas I just wave and keep walking.. if I dont like someone I can be pretty rude n ignore em
Point 2: Yes I would be a bit jealous.. but dpeends on how far his relationship was wit em, does he talk to em on the fone? does he hang out with them all teh time? I wouldn’t like that.. the “guy friends” i have, i’d keep it strictly to school/work with minimal fazool contact (which is almost kinda how it is rite now :halo: )..
Point 3: I dunno.. But why does he hesitate in saying “i love you?” Acutally I think i am that way, it’d be easier for me to write it (n any mushy, lovey stuff), in cards , txts but not in person/fone
i wouldn't be jealous at all, thats pretty muchl like saying that there is no trust, i mean i am not in a relatioship or anything, but i wouldn't be jealous as long as i know that she loves ME :), just because she talks to other guys that doesnt mean there is somthhing going on!
EMM sounds like shes in high school, has a crush on this guy who also likes her but is insecure cuz EMM doesnt tell em she loves em.
BTW EMM either you love someone, either you dont. If you do, then say it, if you dont then let em go(find someone else)! Dont waste their precious time. I know alot of girls do that cuz of fear of commitment. OR you are playing these games with the poor guy until you find someone better that way you can be like "I never really liked u like that".
Is it really too much to ask for someones undivided attention, esp when u dont get to c them that often ??
I hate being in groups simply because I dont feel i cna give em proper attention they deserve.. esp when I’m on the fone, I dont do other things becoz im not a multi-task person.. and sometimes I find it rude or annoying that they will be focusing on other things as well, or tell me to hold on every two seconds, but whatever.. cant xpect ppl to act the same :hinna:
saying I love u is easy…but really meaning it is harder;)
so if you really mean I love u…you will give more attention to the significant other than to all the crowd around you…and soon you’ll start to fade in their memories…and you won’t be as popular as before…
if you really love a guy you won’t spend as much time with your guy buddies …cause you’ll spend most time with …
that’s why two really loving person are more with each other and less with others;)…