Do you have gupshup up and other windows open at the same time? Do you turn GS on and then go out of the room and do other things and come back in? Do you check threads? Follow people who usually do nice posts? Switch back and forth between PMing and reading posts? Or do you just do a bit of baat cheet, sign off, and go someplace else? Do you agree to meet up with friends on GS at a particular time?