okey so we have a small house party at a friend’s birthday two days ago. During the eat up session, the conversation started to flow towards what girls and guys find attractive in each other (doesnt that always come up somehow lolz). So girl A goes to everyone , “I just dig the whole thugged out look/—I don’t know what it is about that bad boy style, all I know is every time I meet them I can’t help but smile, all the cute and thugish things they do” . Girl B jumps to give her opinion and says “yeah you are totally right”. But then most guys quickly turned the topic towards what they look in a girl so nobody got the chance to fully discuss it. So the question goes to the GS guppies. What exactly are “cute and thugish” things that are charm to ladies?
Everytime i see desis doing this whole bad look thing, it seems so cheap and fake. 
… oh just to let u know, everyone was around the age group of 17-21.
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ermmm i frankly don't find it attractive. i agree with you that it just seems sooo wanna be. and it is frankly lame. i don't what it is about it.
maybe someone else can fill me in about it as well.
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I used to find the thuggish look cute and attractive.
These guys are usually a bit chunky, so they’re like teddy bears that you can hug. Also, something about the big strong arms. The cute thing about these kinds of desi boys are that they really are not thuggish at all - just pretend to be rough and tough, but get totally soft when it comes to girls.
Anyhoo - that was the thing I used to see in my high school crush who was on the thuggish side.
But with him, he was at the same time one of the smartest guys in school - ended up going to Yale - valedictorian, found Calculus AB and BC to be easy peasy, was president of like 3 clubs, AND managed to be on the swim team … (watch my luck - he probably frequents this site )
But when it came to females, he would get this confused look.
That was so adorable.
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I totally agree with Khumar. It is not at all attractive or cute. In fact, after learning about thugs and gangs, wanna-bes make me sick and I'd rather stay away from the real thugs and guys who are into gangs.
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that explains it 
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i think thugs r gross :yukh:
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Was I the only one?
Funny though, now I’m into dorky lanky tall nerds. Dunno what is wrong with me.
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^ You like money?
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Thuggish as in those guys whose pants are half way down their butt, with their boxers showing - and who wear a button down collar shirts with their undershirts showing all the time - plus they show off their newly bought 20 silver chains around their neck AND they must wear the baseball caps which are going 45 degrees to the side of their head? Not to mention they hang around at the corner of the highschools for no damn good reason with their wanna be cool friends blasting music and hitting on girls?
Nawh, don't dig that at all.
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Only the money I earn, Matsui.
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omg Sehar what a description 
p.s. the desi version of “thuggish” is ten times worse 
can u imagine lol!!!
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I'm with Sehar on this one. :D
There's nothing even remotely cute about thuggish/bad boy wannabes. It's a very immature/childish look ... very highschoolish. What's sad is that some guys still show off their underwear by wearing oversized pants that rest below their backsides well into their late 20s. Sad stuff indeed.
Let me buy you a belt. Please pull up your pants for the sake of humanity!
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^ They do wear belts, otherwise the bags (aka pants) that they wear would fall off.
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wow 
got some nice replies and kinda surprise to see none of you actually prefer that type over the rest. Now most of you are criticizing them over their looks ie: how they dress up.
Khumar: yeah thats how i think, nothing against them but just noticed that most girls find this whole look/act appealing.
Sadiyah: yeah but i know most of these guys do it just to remain part of it even deep down they feel bad and know its wrong things.
PCG…whoooa its rare to see both smart+ thug characteristics working together. why the sudden interest in nerdy guys recently???
Sara516: any obvious reasons 
Sehar: haha…you pretty much summed up their looks. That 45 degress hat tilt and falling pants are part of their religion lolz.
Sadzzz: are you saying past this age group , the thuggish guys got no potential lolz.
Irem: haha…you are right Irem
Mehnaz: yeah back in highschool, it seemed pretty norm since every other guy was dressed like it. yeah i see older guys still dressed like that too.