I haven’t felt this guilty in a long time. I might have acted in a racial way and that is just bothering the hell out of me. My boys friend at his birthday crossed a few lines and I was able to maintain my cool, the boys and girls constantly tried to sneak up into the bedrooms and I very calmly told them they weren’t allowed to do that. A few things happened and I still maintained my cool. The next day a bunch of the kids came back, probably to reminisce about the good time they had and they snuck up in the bedrooms again. I called them down and went sort of mental on them. This big black boy got the brunt of my wrath. At the party some un invited guests ho got thrown out had brought some weed so was really feeling quite agitated.
Later on I found out that the big black kid who was very muscular also was the nicest kid, very shy and introverted and he didn’t deserve my yelling. Next day one of the western kid came back and I apologized to him and he told m that his dad also yells at the black kid, that makes me feel even worse. All my life I promoted non racism and here acted like one.
so you yelled at the "nicest black" kid and apologized to the "western" kid
The white kid is the only one I saw after the fact, he is quite smart and told my son that he was happy that I felt comfortable enough to yell at him, as he now feels part of the inner circle..lol. People here don't seem to have the big egos, you violate them and they brush it off and don't carry grudges. Whenever I see Charlie, I will apologize. I did have a right to communicate my displeasure but should have been done in a civilized manner and Charlie shouldn't have been single out..
So now I see why your better half is against such parties
Well you don't know the whole story my friend, a few days back a bunch of these lil punks came at my door they wanted to settle a score with one kid hanging at my home, this 14 yr old boy got really verbally violent and made gun threats and other violent threats, we called the police who hunted him down, the kid has several arrest warrants o him, he got caught with a gun and narcs. I think he is an Arab kid. Lots of Arab kids here seem to be in drugs.
This is the new normal for the current western society, most of these kids didn't grow with biological dads, there is lots of sex, alcohol and drugs. I tried socializing with desis but they have so many hangups and they seem depressed and angry and dont seem to do much more than eat Biryanni. If I let them push the limits now then they don't have to do it later like that Uber doctor.
