Guilt?

Lifestyle Relationships
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can mods please close this?

thanks.

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ohmygod i feel so bad for you. ):
If this happened like a couple of days ago (like 1 or 2) then don't do anything now. After like a week call him. (his anger should wear off by then) and tell him how sorry you are. tell him how much you mean to him. tell him why you reacted that way (b/c you were scared he might be cheating on you?..and you don't want to lose.)

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Sorry to hear ur situation.

So basically he broke up with her 2 months after her was with u? so he was cheating on u with her? if so, were u the reason of the break up by any chance.

u need to look at it from ur side. Guys are very good at turning the blame and making u feel like crap when its not even ur fault. the only thing u did wrong was to leave a nasty comment before he had the chance to explain.

if i was u id be open about what happened and how u found out via ur cousin. if u truely think u have a future then make it work and speak to him. if he still refuses to talk to u or understand then walk away. it shud be a wake up call that he maybe doesnt care as much as u do

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I stopped reading after first 2 paragraphs. But I wish you all the Best!

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And I read it three times hoping to comprehend it eventually. But alas!

All the best anyway!

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You clearly don't know the man enough.. 16 years or 16 months, ppl change A LOT.. he was seeing both girls at the same time.. the relationship wasnt serious enough for him at the first place.

i don't agree with ppl who say that u need to apologize. HE needs to say sorry, it was clearly his fault. you left him a nasty msg................ so???? isnt that normal reaction to what he made u go through? he's clearly still into that other girl, because his friends were consoling him and telling him to let go.. (meaning that he prolly mentions that girl to his friends a lot)

y dont u see it... hes not into u.. if he was he would never tell u that he doesnt wanna hear from u.. he doesnt really care what u feel, i think hes heartless .. all his emotions are attached to that other girl... hes not over her.. give him sometime.. dont make a fool out of urself by running after him.. if he wants you.. WHEN he wants you, he will come back for u..

he will get irritated if you keep calling him, give him time to clear his mind and heart..

sorry if i sounded harsh.. good luck !! :)

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wont work, as i said he doesn't want to hear from me again.

I'm pretty sure i wasn't the reason for the break up. and yes its pretty obvious he doesn't care as much, but before leaving he put all the blame on me and made me look like the horrible person. =\

You weren't harsh at all. and I'm not planning on calling him or bugging him about it, but i'm pretty sure once he said its over, its over. its just the guilt of me being the reason he left.. =\

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erm...thanks for trying =)

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yeh sab facebook ka nuqsaan hai ..

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786 I second that.

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LOL! true, i don't even have one. =\

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You've been best friends with a guy and you don't know for sure whether he's been in relationships or not?

Please do yourself a favor and let this relationship go! If something does not make sense, trust your intuition. Never have blind trust in anyone- no matter how convincing they sound.

Also, let's say you talk to him out of guilt and you get back together again. I guarantee you, your doubts will come back and you will be miserable. Don't act out of guilt.