Re: guilt…
do you feel guilty for eating (helping yourself to another serving of fries) yes
for shopping (buying a pair of new heels with your paycheck) yes
for being too pretty around someone who is not. assuming I am too pretty - no
for working overtime in the office and not being able to give time at home I don;t do OT
for generally doing things for yourself no
do you think there is importance attached to a woman’s outer beauty but at the same time engaging in enhancing your outer beauty is deemed shallow and insignificant…therefore deeming a woman that engages in such as not to be taken seriously? no 
do you think there is a way to achieve balance? ofcourseDo you spend time and money on how you look and then feel that you deserve not being taken seriously? never or do you feel you do not spend enough time on your looks and then feel bad in front of prettier women? nyaaaaaaa
do you have guilt attached to whatever you do? im not talking about DROWNING in guilt…but small pangs of guilt that come and go in intervals. Do you get them? whatever I do? no not whatever
Now why do u ask?