Rupay, that is an excellent idea!
But how do you think our desies would react to that? Do you think they would start gossipping and say we're rude?
Some of the people on my guest list are ones who openly complained to my mom that they werent invited to the other two weddings! Ive barely seen these people...havent laid eyes on them in years but they always make her feel so bad!
Complainers, usually they r the type of ppl u can do without anyway. (We had a few complainers after a family wedding, actually some of them we didn't invite PURPOSEFULLY, rather than forgot!)
I think most ppl should understand that its difficult to get quality with high numbers of people, simply bcos of seating limitiations. Even if ppl complain afterwards, it really doesn't matter bcos u had ppl there who u wanted, not odds n sods who only come out of the woodwork when there's a wedding to be had.
You may even find that you have become a trendsetter for others who will follow your example on limiting numbers.