Over the year I have seen disputes/disagreements between various people, and yes I was involved in some myself.However , it is still so very hard for me to understand how people can bring hate -yes you heard me -hate into every disagreement that happens to come up.
Yes this is only an online forum, but that doesnt give anyone the right to sit around and make others miserable. We’re all here because I think we want to interact with different people, then why are there always fights and such if the sole reason for people is to come and pass time, kill boredom, and make some friends?
And some people think they get awards everytime they put another person down, its quite sad actually. Perhaps these certain individuals cant do this ‘hating’ in real life, so they come to gs and let forth the negative feelings.
Oh ofcourse many people come to gs to vent, but despite whatever hardships one is going through, there is no reason why the anger and frustrations should be taken out on an individual online. Oh ofcourse, one should not take this online forum seriously at all , yet the same individuals who say this spend most of their time surfing gs.
Before I get accused of a “holier-than-thou” attitude , I just want to point out that it wouldnt kill anyone of us to act mature once in a while. And there is more to life then putting another person down. I may disagree with gs members, but thats no reason why I should hate them.
In fact even our dear Madhanee has a few lessons we can perhaps learn, ofcourse in return we can also teach him many more.
And yes its quite surprising how much patience the gs admins and mods must have.Quite surpsising indeed.
Yes you have a very holier than thou attitude, maturity means you can actually discuss things and even tease each other without getting all religious about it, and if you must why do you have to talk to everyone else like they are about 4 years old.
there are a multitude of poeple who are older than you and wise than you, so at least give them the benifit of the doubt and treat them as such.
I know you will reply with "I know"
But please, I suggest it is little to do with hate and more to do with respect, even though u are very polite, I feel you are disrespectful. I do not for one like to be spoken to like a child. and i know many others also hold that view.
Once we are all adults ( u too dearest) we can possibly have mature debates, if you are not old enough for a LOGICAL discussion then there is no use even trying to participate. Or even indeed butting in where you are not wanted, it is a most HATEFUl crime.
hiccyy---I am an adult, Im sorry you didnt notice. I treat you like I treat all of my friends. If you felt I didnt, I never stopped you from discussing it with me. Yes my style of tying does seem a bit off from how I actually talk. But I consider you a friend, so I dont think you should be confused too often as to where I am coming from.
But then again we usually see things how we want to see them. But rest assured when things go wrong , I look at my mistakes first.
This thread is not about you, its about all the gs people who start flaming each other when they disagree.
ghulail--- Maybe we should make some new years resolutions for our online lives.:o
^ new year resolution…i am also an adult. i am sorry u didnt notice. i treat you like i wud any of my kids.friendly it has always been, with a lil bit of teasing…real flaimg hasnt begun…u see u r too nice, sweet, for that…but i cud make a few resolutions?
i recommend one for ya…stop overdoing the :o smily…
