I personally tend not to hold grudges against anyone. However, if I don’t want to talk to someone for various reasons. I would rather avoid talking to them.
How do you deal with people who you have a grudge against or someone that you simply do not want to associate with?
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i ignore such ppl but on the other hand i never let ppl know i hate them
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I never had to deal with somebody like this so I don't know how to deal with it.
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I tend to forget ppl. But there are times when you have to get even or make other person realize he is not all that what he thinks.
I personally tend not to hold grudges against anyone. However, if I don't want to talk to someone for various reasons. I would rather avoid talking to them.
How do you deal with people who you have a grudge against or someone that you simply do not want to associate with?
Its so funny I try to ask them or mention it jokingly if it is too obvous with their behavior. I try to forget about mine as long as we have an mutually respectable relationship
u know wat really works if u somehow tell the person exactly how you feel about them hatred sort of goes away coz im not an angle when i hate someone i end being misreable myself so y not really confront
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i have grudges against desis, but when i hear indians their accent makes me laugh so hard its uncontrollable, specially the lame indians
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I don't keep grudges in my mind for my lovedones and closedones. I just express whatever I feel infront of them. But I am not expressive about those people about whom I am not really concerned. I just ignore them and try not to talk to them.
avOiD!
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ignore ka tikka lagata hoon!
I tend to forget ppl. But there are times when you have to get even or make other person realize he is not all that what he thinks.
eggjactly!
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grudges.. no. for lil daily cra. it aint worth my time.
but bigger stuff like taking advantage of me or breach of trust..that comes with massive payback...you betcha..
**** with me, and one day..somewhere sometime, when you least ****ing expect it, I will even the score, and then some.
i dont belive in the sayiong that if someone slaps your cheek you offer the other cheek..infact you slap the other person back to bring equilibrium in the equation, then you slap once more for that perp to feel what it is like to be on the receiving end, and then a few more just for future reference so they gthink twice before messing with you or someone else.
to borrow a line from klingons...revenge is a dish best served cold..:)
grudges.. no. for lil daily cra. it aint worth my time. but bigger stuff like taking advantage of me or breach of trust..that comes with massive payback...you betcha.. **** with me, and one day..somewhere sometime, when you least ****ing expect it, I will even the score, and then some.
i dont belive in the sayiong that if someone slaps your cheek you offer the other cheek..infact you slap the other person back to bring equilibrium in the equation, then you slap once more for that perp to feel what it is like to be on the receiving end, and then a few more just for future reference so they gthink twice before messing with you or someone else.
to borrow a line from klingons...revenge is a dish best served cold..:)
wow
I like that.
i beat the hell out of them 
ne 1 for chai ?
grudges.. no. for lil daily cra. it aint worth my time. but bigger stuff like taking advantage of me or breach of trust..that comes with massive payback...you betcha.. **** with me, and one day..somewhere sometime, when you least ****ing expect it, I will even the score, and then some.
i dont belive in the sayiong that if someone slaps your cheek you offer the other cheek..infact you slap the other person back to bring equilibrium in the equation, then you slap once more for that perp to feel what it is like to be on the receiving end, and then a few more just for future reference so they gthink twice before messing with you or someone else.
to borrow a line from klingons...revenge is a dish best served cold..:)
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for people like my close family , friends , relatives and most of others in general i'm very forgiving ...........
but if someone willingly mess with me or consiously show bad intensions esp towards my dear ones that do hold grudge for that , and wait for the right time to even it out , just like they say "tit for tat".
grudges.. no. for lil daily cra. it aint worth my time. but bigger stuff like taking advantage of me or breach of trust..that comes with massive payback...you betcha.. **** with me, and one day..somewhere sometime, when you least ****ing expect it, I will even the score, and then some.
i dont belive in the sayiong that if someone slaps your cheek you offer the other cheek..infact you slap the other person back to bring equilibrium in the equation, then you slap once more for that perp to feel what it is like to be on the receiving end, and then a few more just for future reference so they gthink twice before messing with you or someone else.
to borrow a line from klingons...revenge is a dish best served cold..:)
I like your response, as they say it in German, "Rache is Süß", meaning revenge is sweet!! :)
I dont hold grudges, unless someone has totally annoyed, insulted me and that only happens once in years.
a wise man said
"anger/hate is like holding a hot coal and attempting to throw it at your enemy, you might hit or you might miss, but you, yourself is guaranteed to be burnt "
and as far i believe, we are all part of one brotherhood and sister hood
jesus, one of the prophets said " it it human to err and divine to forgive "