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Open up a new thread for that … We dont wanna disturb you ladies here 
A new thread for boyz/men to share their experience of growing pains from boyz to men. This is a split from the girls version topic " **How should girls be initially taught about"
so go on - we’d like to know boyz version too
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haha “growing pains”
no I think its more about embarrassment for boys. having an unintentional damn erection that won’t go down and not knowing what to do with it … what it was for… and trying to hide it from others especially when you dont have proper underclothing on … and say at school when “its” up and female teacher asks you to stand up and read s/th .
and the second most challenging thing was dealing with “wet dreams”. First few times/months I had no clue wth that “stuff” was 
… and just like some of the girls in other thread it was a shock for me and I’d wonder whether it was some disease and whome to talk about it etc … The resulting embarrasment that comes with where on earth to hide those dirty clothes when only person to do laundry at home was my mom 
and all the thoughts about chucking out those clothes … washing off the “effected area” bla bla bla …
but with time it all got better and you learn new things:desimunda:
luckily, unlike girls, boys dont have to deal with much pain or should i say no pain at all?.. well intoxicated talked about wet dreams.. well, you could avoid that by just doing it yourself, if ya know what i mean. And beside, even if wet dream occurs, there isnt pain at all... i mean, its just the sperms that are coming out without u even knowing ...which you're holding in for some long time...so not so much of a big deal.
Im trying to think about something which is more relevant to the 'growing pains in boys' but seems to not remember any...or maybe im still a kid..LOL :P
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it's a learning process. natural process.
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ya ya ya ya ya 
Can you guys talk about what you feel when your voice starts turning all mature and all? I felt so odd to hear my cousins. They seemed so grown up all of a sudden!
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ya it's weird at first but we're proud we are men
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LOL. Look at this thread.
They have nothing to say, i.e. no growing pains and then there are ladies thinking they were dying of blood cancer for monthsss!! 
Guys have it way too easy. 
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No its not easy growing up. I think whole child hood is over rated. What's fun being week and vulnerable??
I was severely abused as a kid, I can protect my self now.
as matter of fact I can kick serous A@$ and I am very happy about it.
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wow i just clicked the girlz version when i thought it was this... shame on you
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Oh come on guys! Open your heart out. You see we had no clue about periods n' stuff...
I am sure everyone has a story to tell - we want to hear it!
Intoxicated: Thanks for sharing your experience. Girls must know too - cause we eventually have questions, so we know how to deal with these issues too for our sons!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! without embarrassing them... to guide with an educated mind.
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let ur sons roam.... they will find out , it's nature, let it happen. stop being so "educated" , a man finds his way
let ur sons roam.... they will find out , it's nature, let it happen. stop being so "educated" , a man finds his way
lol - ummm - that was an excuse... we just wanna know -lol
Straight up! I agree - they have it way too easy! And for the most partt hey have no clue either - it just gets harder of us with having children and bodies changing.
But I would never want to be a guy. I love being a gal!
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^LOL. I knowwww - would never want to be a guy!!
I was talking about the early age when it started happening and had no clue about it. Although the act has no harm itself for the above purpose it can lead to over indulgence and worse yet addiction with terrible consequences.
I heard people around me saying that my voice was changing but I could never notice that myself
Well there was a great deal of pain involved in “growing up”.
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You know all those fights in school or in the neighbourhood, learning to be street smart and then “those injuries” during cricket (ball hitting balls) :(. That was not easy you see. In fact that last one can compete with any pain that girls go through.
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May be if you ask specific Qs like Niksik, more guys will be willing to answer.
but would you not agree that some of the info. you pull together from friends that age and other unreliable sources could actually be harmful. Not talking about sex education in the school.
Like guys here are asking for best sex change procedures.