Re: Grilling the Prospect
these are just core issues…of course, not on the first meet up…may be on the second or third meet up. 
the girl will ask tactfully and wrap her questions in beautiful words and andaaz. jaise, regarding the first question, she may ask like this:
-aapko laRkiyaaN acchchhii lagtii haiN?
-aapko bachche pasand haiN?
-aap ne kabhii kisii laRkii ko date par le jaane kii da’vat dii?
etc