Grief

[yanzala]

@maena

Yanzala, i can kind of relate. Three weeks ago a friend of mine passed away in a car wreck. She wasn’t a relative or even an extremely close friend, but i worked with her in a research lab and saw her everyday and shared an office with her. I broke down when i heard she was gone. She was only 26 and was going to get married in May. Weeks later, i still find myself constantly thinking about her and every conversation i ever had with her and getting upset. I can’t even imagine what her poor fiance and family are going through. Even though i’m sure she’s in a better place and i try to be grateful for the time i knew her, short though it was, there is something about death that just lingers. I hope time manages to heal the pain for both of us.

INSHALLAH. maybe ALLATHALA grand her jannat and give you and her family sabar-e-jameel.
i am not sure if u have had those feelings to is that people just does not understand your feelings or relation with the person who has died, unless it a sibling, parent, or a grand parent, people just doesn’t understand why we are so sad. several time, even from my own family i got those sort of comments that why are u being so emotional when u weren’t exactly directly related to her, as she wasn’t my mother or grandmother, she was just my phoppo.