Green Flags

Lifestyle Relationships
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So as expected…guppans overwhelming enthusiasm with the negatives and all…

Would someone be kind enough to share some Green flags?? which give you the feeling that there are good people in the world n all??

Like some signs which give you assurance n all??

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I knew this thread would come up :hehe: :omg:

:k:

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lol.

-good education
-good manners

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Gives a nice shoulder/back massage and can make a sammich, oh and will curl up next to me and watch the ball game.

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instincts

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Assets

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Nice smell? :p

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I don’t consider being cautious/thourough as a negtive thing, overwhelming or otherwise. It’s common sense for one to be carefull especially with life-altering decisions…for both genders…not just women.

And to frequently have a negative opinion about women and their feelings and experiences…to invalidate them…that’s not a healthy outlook. This too, would be damaging to a relationship.

It’s a good thing that you’re encouraging the posting of green signals :k: I don’t have a problem with that. But to sarcastically associate being cautious with only one gender isn’t mature. Most people don’t enjoy being in a strained relationship…they want things to work out…and are not “enthusiastic” about problems potential or actual.

I’ll save you the time: “Ignore post # 6 or is it 7” ?

Now I’ll attempt answering your question…

Green flags:

Consistency between words an actions…they both match up (this goes for not only the guy/girl…but family members for both parties)

Being proactive in figuring out a compromise…meeting each other in the middle.

Choice of words…language should be respectful. And should have the ability to apologize when they know they’re wrong. (goes for both genders)

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Openness and honesty

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when he has respect for women and respects my parents, is charming only with me( :p!!!), butterflies in me tummy when i look into his eyes and i blush even if i'm really not a blusher, he's a man of honor and a man of his word...........would they be considered green flags?

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For me the biggest cue is whether the person is respectful towards others. Tells you a lot about their upbringing.

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This is one of those green flags:
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/File:Usdollar100front.jpg

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a spark

kindness, politeness and mutual respect

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respect for the potential partner's family
respecting people's limited and boundaries
someone that is supportive of your goals whatever they may be and encouraging
someone that is comes to the table willing to compromise and work out problems rather than sit passively
honesty and being open