Great expections dashed by in-laws

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Re: Great expections dashed by in-laws

@Princess1983

and to some extent I was them to deal with their grandchild, and if they don’t want to I want them to make it clear for all to see. That way my little one won’t be under constant pressure to impress dada dadi, visit and so on.

what you want is not necessarily what you will get…so better to set a more reasonable expectation. if they don’t want to deal with your child, they won’t…and they will never allow the discrimination to be clear because then they will be held accountable.

as a parent you should keep up your side of the bargain…teach your child to love and respect her grandparents, uncles, aunts and cousins regardless of the underlying snub that you obviously feel. teach her to visit and to fulfill her side of the farz…rest Allah will take care of.