Re: Grandparents
Children who have grand parents are very very lucky !
There will be difference of opinions when it comes to taking care of your child and upbringing but those differences can be ignored or adopted without having any negative feelings. I many a times don’t agree with my own parents when it comes to my daughter but it’s ok & manageable.
My dada dadi were more loving and caring than my nana and nani & my mother and my dadi had differences like all the saas bahu in the world but my mom always tells me that she loved me very much and always kept my interest first. Saas bahu relationship and relation with of your kid with dada dadi is completely different and I believe that if dada dadi are truly caring and loving they will become more kind and considerate towards the bahu after she gives birth to their grand child and same goes for bahu that she will become more kind towards them after seeing how much they love her child.
When my daughter was born and I woke up the first thing my ex MIL said to me was that in operation theatre there men too and you did not have much clothes on you…aye haye kiya kar saktay hain sab chalta hai haina wahan konsa parda ? I was surprised that she was sneak peeking the operation theatre instead of praying for her grand child’s life. When I asked my mom if they all could see the theatre she said she does not know how on the earth she managed to see you over there because they were not letting anybody stand near the door. Before she met me she got angry on my mom saying that “tum nay to kaha tha larka hoga” whereas my mom actually never said that.