Re: Grandparents and parents
So what do you do when your kids nani or dadi:
- wants your kid to wear a particular outfit at this family wedding but you have found this other awesome one that you wanted your kid to wear so badly?
- wants to cut your daughter's hair and you want to grow them?
- wants your kids to stay with them for a few weeks but you don't want them to because you don't like the atmosphere in their home.
- don't say anything to your kid went they exhibit bad behavior?
Please add some more possible situations and discuss solutions.
Here's another one.
My good friend lives walking distance from her in laws and her 2 kids are always running off to dadi's home because there are other cousins there and they have a ball. My friend feels that they are getting spoilt as they skip meals and fuss coming home etc. etc. I told her to have a chat with her mother in law that she could have the kids come home for khaana so they can at least sit together at the table and eat.
I don't know...kids love fun and a relaxed atmosphere. Maybe that's why they are attracted to dadi's place?