got me thinking..

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I would like to update my previous statement in light of recent experience.

Some things can neither be forgotten nor forgiven.

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i forgive....n i just don't care abt those things anymore.

yes some incidents make me recall the previous ones , which i think i've forgotten ...but that doesn't mean i hold grudges etc.

there is one person, i thought its difficult to forgive him ....but i did .....n i also asked for this person to forgive me coz in my anger i did some backbiting

Now I believe in prayers .....someone hurts me ....i cry n then ask Allah to forgive that person for hurting me n treat me likewise for my mistakes.

To err is human, folks. forgive n forget!

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:hug: and now we’re on the same page.

You want a baby boy
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Afia, i thought i didn’t care about forgiving and forgetting, but turns out i do :bummer:
I always forgive ppl(ok almost always) and when i do, i don’t hold grudges. i don’t hold anything against anyone, but i don’t know why i am having such a hard time forgiving and letting go of this one thing:( i think i should just give it time.
I’ve always believed in prayers, nothing like the satisfaction you get from prayer.

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the positive thing abt me is that i forgive n forget everything :D

Love, Sight and Makhan
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hey forgiving and forgetting everything can be a bad thing. you are not normal :hehe:

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Am I the only one who forgets before forgiving. It has happened to me a couple of times when I called a friend I was supposed to be mad at. :konfused:

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I have done that too, forgetting before forgiving, only a couple of times though. Usually with ppl who don't matter a whole lot.

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I've done that too, only a couple of times though :)

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I think its real hard to forget especially if that persons really close to you, its easy when its someone you will never see.

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I forget and forgive mostly. It would be nice to remember, at least then I wouldn't make the same mistake again.

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rimsh. remembering everything is also not normal :D

why not choose the better.

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Yes. Otherwise you will turn into a very ill and lonely person

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its hard for me to do either. i think i've forgiven, but i keep bringing it up again and again. i can never seem to let go..huh