Gossip

Lifestyle Relationships
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im just wondering how to deal with people who u know say mean things about u behind ur baq n pretend nice infront of u?ive recently found out about my own good friend gossiping about me,have u ever found out what people are gossiping about u?:frowning:

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Re: Gossip

yea i knw a lot of ppl gossping abt me..even here on Gs....but its normal..u find these ppl everywhere...best way to ignore them..however if u cant...than gossip abt them with sum other ppl!! simple easy peasy!!!!!:D

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hehehe people are gossiping about u here :halo:well if sumone is talking about me i cant ignore them but i really cant go down to their level to start gossiping about them

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Re: Gossip

uff how much i hate those ppl :disgust:

yeah i know like almost every1 around me is doing it so its not a surprise for me and i just hate this kind

they actually think that sum1 who doesnt think like them i.e doesnt have a tiny narrow mind is shameless and wierd

and they r so dheet ke they will actually whisper bout u in each other’s ears right infront of u

and i wonder wat they will be saying behind my back

and the things they say bout ppl behind their backs r just mean

and wen u met them they pretend to be the nicest ppl on the face of earth and pretend like there is no1 who is more sincere then them

uff!!! hypocricy on its peak

but i dont gossip bout them but i sure warn other ppl bout them its up to them if they listen to me or not

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Oh darn! and I was so careful!!!

Samra I simply ignore the gossips as I am earning sawab. When the messenger comes tells me that they have heard such and such gossip from someone, is it true........I tell them to use their best judgment and believe the gossip if they think it's true or reject it if they think I can never do that.

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Re: Gossip

stuff them... laff at the fact they even have time to talk about you.. consider yourself special .. lol :)

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i dont want people talking crap about me to know i m special.but the whole drama of people on my side saying lets go confront them n all is whats bothering me i dont wanna get into tutu maimai with anyone

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well if i wont be married i wuld kill them but now im just to old to pickup fights with people but ur not, make the most of it. once ur married u cant even say anything to sumone who made a stupid rumour about u

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yea i know ppl like that as well it's really annoying but now i just ignore those couple of ppl that i know that talk about me i know it may seem hard at first to ignore them cuz they used to be your friend but it gets easier as time goes on just involve yourself in some other activity or something........start hanging out with other ppl and eventually either they'll see their mistakes and come talk to you and if they don't then they really can't be that good of a friend to you

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the way i see it anyone that talks behind your back is just jealous of you :D

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jealousy is nothing new even i get a lil jealous sumtimes but it doesnt mean im gonna go absolutely psychotic n start spreading crazy rumours

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i'm not saying everytime you're jealous of someone you have to talk about them behind their back but some people do it.........there's not much you can do about someone talking about you besides ignoring them