Sara it is true she may be under microscope.
The interaction with desis is what I mentioned about. And many times it is not her fault but the parents expectations.
She is citizen, she is better at English, she knows her way around…so parents wish a Doctor or highly qualified, highly paid professional should be the one who she should marry.
It is a dilemma of these girls.
On the other hand, decent educated professionals attract goris especially due to other reasons I am not going to go in to at this time and hence desi men feel a bit more respected and accepted by them. Eventually they get married to them. Again the end result I am not going in to at this time.
Some idea of desans can be sensed from thread “Muslim Speed Dating”.