Re: GORAYs
Yesteday While I was at work and kids were at school my wife had lunch at Olive Gardens with her friends. We do invite friends or go to their homes for chit caht over a cup of chai and some samosay and pakoray.
Wife even goes out to movies , malls etc etc. I had a friend who moved to Pakistan last year we used to go watch movies , go to mall to look at and buy books . Many desi I know just will meet you for a dawat only and that too they want to be invited , they will not call and say I want to come over just to meet you. I do that a couple of times with some one but if they do not do the same then I stop doing that with them.