goes the goooooooooood news.
SARA: two diff adopted kids can live togetha even after their maturity like real brother sister 
mind the perdaa required for even brothers .. but if they plan to .. they are even allowed to marry .
bad news: i just read a hadith nerative by Hazret Abdullah .. CURSE ON THE WOMEN WHO FIX/plucks HER FACIAL HAIR TO LOOK YOUNG TO NA-MEHREMS lol .. its all good if u do it for ur hubby though and ONE CANT USE FAKE HAIR/VIG EVEN FOR HER HUBBY.
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THANK YOU .. this shud fill in for my short comings
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Lol why u tellin me dis? :p Thanks though ;)
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coz once i read some guppies determining it haram n u were not so happy with it .. so i felt like asking this mufti dude of mine.
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oh lol aite.... Thanks :D
I still dont c how adoption is "haram"....only ignorant jaahils can think that taking in a child is somehow dirty or wrong
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I don't think adoption is haraam at all. In fact, Islam promotes the idea of being kind to and looking after the orphans. Just the Pakistani mentality or mentality in general that is not too pro-adoption.
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adoption itself isn't haraam...except the children u adopt aren't allowed to inherit anything from their parents when they die...so in that sense u have to make sure the children u adopt are standing on their own two feet before u die and are able to provide for themselves, otherwise you'll be accountable and will have to answer to Allah swt.
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^ Absolute BS.
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SO if the kids are able to stand on their own two feet hten what's the point of adopting em?
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u r missing my point, the point is u can adopt children and provide for them so that they're able to stand on their own two feet before you die
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I think you should get your facts straight before you open your mouthâŚunder Sharia law only relatives with a legitimate blood relationship to the deceased are entitled to inherit from the deceased. âIllegitimateâ or ânon-naturalâ children according to Islamic law and adopted children have no part in inheritance. Adopting a child legally like people do in the west is forbidden in Islam. In matters of inheritance, the Qurâan does not recognize any claim except those based on relationship through blood and marriage (Qurâan 8:75).
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Okay that makes much mroe sense thanks!
BUT, doesnât that apply to blood children as well, making them able to support themselves and stand on their own two feet? Isnât that the job of a parent, to instill enough confidence and respect in their child that they feel they can support themselves and others? And what is to stop the siblings from âunofficiallyâ sharing their inheritance with thier âadoptedâ brothers/sisters? Are there limitations on that as well?
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regarding adoption:
It is reported in a Hadith that the one who assumes responsibility for the
well-being of an orphan will be granted the nearness of Nabi (Sallallahu
Alayhi Wasallam) in Jannat (Mishkaat). This is an extremely neglected Sunnat
of our beloved Nabi (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) and we should definitely
aspire in this direction; however, we must uphold the framework of the
Shariah.
One cannot legally adopt; you cannot give your name to the child. Legal
adoption like this is prohibited in Islam.
If a person legally adopts a child there can be several complications.
Firstly, the child will lose his identity. Secondly, suppose after adopting
a child one has children of his own. It is natural that in such a situation
you will show bias in favour of your own blood child. Thirdly, if the child
born to you is of the opposite sex to the adopted child, they cannot freely
stay in the same home because they aren't blood related to each other. When
the adopted child, a girl, grows up, she has to make Purdah (Hijaab) with
the adopted father as he is not her real father. If the boy becomes a man
and marries, there will be Hijaab between the so called father and
daughter-in-law.
If you adopt a child you will be depriving him/her of many rights. If a
person dies, the property that he leaves behind has to be divided according
to what is mentioned in the Qur'an.
If the person has children and if he legally adopted a child, he will be
depriving his own child of his legitimate inheritance. If a person has no
children when he dies, then his wife will get 1/4 the estate. If there are
children she gets 1/8. Again the adopted child will reduce the share of the
mother should this child be considered legally legitimate.
To avoid all these complications, legal adoption is prohibited in Islam.
However this should in no way dissuade us from earning tremendous reward by
taking care of orphan children.
Please do make an effort to follow up with local scholar.. its a great thing but please do make sure your household envrionment is safe for child... desi housholds can be very disturbing for child since most of the desi's look down upon this great sunna of our Prophet(PBUH)
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regarding adoption:
It is reported in a Hadith that the one who assumes responsibility for the
well-being of an orphan will be granted the nearness of Nabi (Sallallahu
Alayhi Wasallam) in Jannat (Mishkaat). This is an extremely neglected Sunnat
of our beloved Nabi (Sallallaahu Alayhi Wasallam) and we should definitely
aspire in this direction; however, we must uphold the framework of the
Shariah.
** Soooo many people forget these type of Sunnahs. They concentrate on things of lesser significance than this such as the length of the beard or rolling up teh pants whatever. **
One cannot legally adopt; you cannot give your name to the child. Legal
adoption like this is prohibited in Islam.
If a person legally adopts a child there can be several complications.
Firstly, the child will lose his identity. Secondly, suppose after adopting
a child one has children of his own. It is natural that in such a situation
you will show bias in favour of your own blood child.
** Now I'm not a parent, but I dont' imagine I'd ever love one over hte other one. All children are loved equally, whether adopted or not. I hope some parents on here can back me up on this, that children are loved equally. **
If you adopt a child you will be depriving him/her of many rights. If a
person dies, the property that he leaves behind has to be divided according
to what is mentioned in the Qur'an.
If the person has children and if he legally adopted a child, he will be
depriving his own child of his legitimate inheritance. If a person has no
children when he dies, then his wife will get 1/4 the estate. If there are
children she gets 1/8. Again the adopted child will reduce the share of the
mother should this child be considered legally legitimate.
** Ok I understand that including the adopted child in your will is ISlamically prohibited. HOWEVER, if you were living with someone from a young age, or you'r ea mother who took care of this child, wouldn't you give up part of your share of the inheritance anyway? Can someone tell me that? **
To avoid all these complications, legal adoption is prohibited in Islam.
However this should in no way dissuade us from earning tremendous reward by
taking care of orphan children.
Please do make an effort to follow up with local scholar.. its a great thing but please do make sure your household envrionment is safe for child... desi housholds can be very disturbing for child since most of the desi's look down upon this great sunna of our Prophet(PBUH)
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i xpected alota bukwaaas rising on this thread .. if yall soo much concirned abt it n realy wana look into .. y not take ur sour butt to an AALIM or MUFTI ???
this can happen . that can happen .. on this circumstance .. with this obligation .. AIK DEM BUKWAAAAS !!!
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Uhm okay whateverâŚ
I just asked a simple question, no bakwaas in there iz dat 
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asking a question mean anything to u ? i mean realy .. think abt it .