Good manners/morals

Good manners/morals are key of successful life. you can see many religious people around you who pray salah, pay zakat, and perform hajj. It is difficult to find those people with good morals.

It is also reported in one hadith which means less or more that a person with good morals will exceed someone who prayed tahjjud and fasted his whole life.

My point is that our prayers and worships are nothing but our nice behavior and good words are more considered and essence of healthy and good life.

Would you agree?

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Good points in essence. But disagree on few points in red there.

1- Succesful life has many meanings.

But neither one is standard and there is no guarantee that being good mannered or moral will get you successful life in general sense.

A whole lot of ill-mannered and immoral people have or have achieved very successful life. You just have to look around a bit in detail. :wink:

2- I do not think any hadith would compare praying tahajjud and fasting with moral behaviour and will categorically say good morals have more value and Tahajjud/fasting does not.

3- Prayers and worship are important ALONG WITH good morals and just being moral has not been shown in ANY formed religion to be enough for salvation despite the fact that being moral is advised and encouraged.

4- Think of Morality as the cement which binds prayer, zakaat etc. bricks together.

**The cement itself cannot build the house and bricks without the cement will not be able to make a strong house.

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Again same complain, my point is who are we to judge. I hate proud people especially those who are very proud on their Ibadat. But I cannot be judgemental. And pious people don’t show off their ibadats.

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:k:

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And my point is that our prayers and worships are very important and actually they help us in carrying a nice behavior & good words and the mixture of these is more considered and essence of healthy and good life.

One who doesnt carry a nice heart towards people, I would say for them, wo namaz PARHTAY hain, QAAIM nahin kertay!! And its been clearly said, Namaz QAAIM karo. Namaz parhna aur Qaaim kerna are two different things! & Namaz parhezgaari sikhati hay!

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very true,

:k:

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true i dont show my izzats and ibadats to strangers.

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very true

:omg:

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Elaborate on the difference between “parhna” and “qaaim karna” please.

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what do you mean by izzats. :chai:

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would you like to see? :o

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he was probably trying to say “sharam ga hain”
aur apni sharam ga hon ki hifazat karein