and thats coming from Mr. “billu barber”
sir, its not about high standards…many things go hand in hand when it comes to looks..and money for that matter..especially when there is marriage involved…whats the first thing that comes to your mind that can destroy relationships?
Men can get uncomfortable if their wives come from a rich family and or are better looking than them…one couple particularly stood out, this guy would continuously put his wife down because he was on the “not-so-good-looking side” and she was very pretty…he made her wear burka, and psychologically abused her. Everyone could see what the problem was…but didnt say anything.
Same goes for women, if she is “saadi looking” and he is a “hero”, she will constantly be paranoid, uncomfortable, and distressed in social gatherings…seen that too…and yes its sad.
so..marrying “your equal” makes quite a lot of sense when you think of the bigger picture in the long run.
exactly. that’s the norm of reciprocity. there’s nothing wrong with wanting a good looking partner. everyone wants and strives for the best they can get.